ITVAB 008: Unity in Marriage

Welcome to Episode 008 of the podcast. Listen here or on one of your favorite Podcast apps below. Just Search for In the Valley and Beyond!

Two leading causes for divorce, is the lack of communication between spouses, and a lack of unity that is not considered until it’s too late.

So, what does Unity in Marriage truly look like? How to approach a spouse that doesn't want to come to Church? How to fight good in your marriage? These are questions posted by our listeners that Pastors Mike and Matthew will cover in this episode.

Ephesians 4:3, it reminds us to, "Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace."

Join us as we take this journey to a healthier marriage!

In the Podcast Pastors Mike and Matthew shared some dos and don'ts along the way. Just a few points from the podcast are listed here:

Pastor Matthew shared with us that "If you are unified in your thoughts, prayers, and values, it will shape how you take on so many things within your marriage, from finances, to how you raise and guide your children, even down to how you handle conflict"

7 simple ways of leading your family:

1. Seeking, First, God's will for our lives
2. Praying together
3. Waiting Together
4. Engaging with church and community together
5. Standing with your spouse on decisions made with children
6. Forgive one another when mistakes are made
7. Always put love into everything you do
   

DON'TS

• Do not gossip!
• Do not bring up the past
• Do not poke at them, and look for faults

Communication is key!